As long as one’s selfishness is being fulfilled he loves him and considers being him his ideal. But as soon as he comes to know that his selfishness is not fulfilled by anyone, he atonce gives him up. As a swan leaves a dry pond, a bird a dried up tree, a calf leaves a cow when it stops giving milk, a prostitute leaves the poor person, worse nurtured son an old parent, a servant powerless master, subjects leave a king without truth, devotees a monk without restraint, all attainments of spiritual power and prosperity a yogi devoid of penance and meditation. Good karmas leaves the yogis who have no volitions. Similarly a person gives up that person from whom his purpose doesn’t get fulfilled. Are you not interested in those you love out of selfishness? If you say no, then why do you not love each and every being? It is there proved that you also love out of selfishness. Where there is more selfishness there is more love. Is it not the reality of your life?