Collectively we need homely atmosphere for the protection of society, religion and objects of religion! receptacles). If we wish to save our home from breaking then the secrets of our home should not be disclosed to other being.
Always keep this principle intact in your life. The home breaks only when our mutual trust transforms into doubt and secrets of the home are disclosed to others. Had you settled weakness of the house sitting in home with mutual trust then your house would not have broken.
In case there are untoward circumstances, contrary work is being done, then settle it sitting together, by mutual consultation and counselling.
This principle applies to home, family, society and country as well. Never go to give evils, envy etc., of your home (i.e. trouble) to the other being and vice-versa, then only your home will be saved.
If any member of the house is committing mistake, then behaving him with affinity make him catch the right path, the ethic says so. The world neither honours a falling down nor gives respect to a person who caused him to fall down. Only that one is viewed with an ¡ eye of respect who rises above as well as who caused him to rise up.
Merely being a elder, is not a great man. The one who carries out his duty along with elderlyness indeed that pillar (back-bone of society) j rises above in his own eyes as well as is viewed with an eye of respect in the society. Always think in posilive direction.
By thinking in negative direction one finds himself in deteriorated condition. Liberate yourself from karmic bondage manifesting the feeling of dutifulness within ownself, i.e. mending your spoiled habits by yourself, make your life successful by broadening the path of the well-being of your own soul.